Yep. We're back. We probably shouldn't be, but we are. Noah seems to be coughing quite a bit all of a sudden. When Tom and the girls left here on Monday morning, Noah went right back to bed and slept for an hour and a half until the guy in the adjoining room started singing (rapping?) along to some song with very objectionable language and I thought, "We have to get out of here!" So we went to the hospital yesterday and the Dr. approved Noah's return to RMH but he woke up coughing more this morning and so he basically had to spend most of the day in our room, so as not to make anyone else sick (actually more to assuage my guilty feelings, lol) . He doesn't cough that much, just more than the director would like. I feel terrible every time I hear him, but the dr. did say we could come back.... (can you tell I feel guilty? ) They did a couple of tests on him and he was negative for bacteria and also for H1N1, Influenza A and a few of the more serious common viruses. Maybe I should give him some cough medicine or something but I'll have to find some that doesn't have Tylenol in it because now that his fever is down, I can't give it to him anymore.
I suppose I should back up and tell you how our Easter Weekend went: too fast and not enough time together. Noah was very sick- he had a high fever all weekend (up to 40.3 at one point) which the oncologist attributed to ARA-C, the chemo drug he was given over the weekend. He spent the better part of Friday and Saturday in the hospital and Sunday morning, too. Tom spent all that time with Noah at the Hospital and I did a few fun things with the girls. We went to Vancouver First CRC on Sunday where we enjoyed a simply beautiful service with an amazing choir, cellists and trumpets all singing Hallelujah! over and over! It was so good to be there pondering the empty tomb and a future with no more crying or sickness or disease or death ... I cried for most of the service. Bawled my head off.
After church we received permission for Noah to be at RMH for Easter dinner, so we came back here for the afternoon. It was so nice for us to be back here together.
Easter dinner was prepared for us by a family whose 7 yr old daughter won a pageant and chose RMH as one of the charities she will support during the time she holds her title. It was a bit weird. She is very cute and very nice, but she arrived dressed up in a big tiara and a sash and with a lot of makeup on. Her sister told us that every appearance she makes at places like RMH and when she does things like this during this year, she gains points toward a scholarship. Alyson and Miranda were quite taken with her tiara and they asked me later, "Is she a real princess?" They were so confused by the answer that "no, she isn't a princess, she won a beauty pageant" ... "a kid won a beauty contest????" and "Is that why they were taking so many pictures of us?" The whole thing was a bit weird, as I said. However, the girl was very nice and our girls really liked her a lot, and most importantly, the dinner was quite delicious!
The best part of the evening was when Greg and Lisa de Vries showed up! They arrived just in time to join us for dinner. We haven't seen them much since they left Smithers, but it was such an awesome visit. We talked and laughed for hours! I didn't realize how much I missed them....
A strange thing happened when Noah and I were at Safeway the other day; I was trying to find something, anything he would eat when who should walk around the corner but Janna Van Driel! The whole van Driel family was there! At our Safeway! It was so cool to see them, too. A very nice surprise....
Getting back to today, when Noah woke up, his temperature was only 38.2, so I didn't give him anything and by the afternoon he was down to 37.6. Yay! However, he has been feeling very nauseous and has vomited a few times in the last couple of days which feels terrible, of course. I feel really bad for him; thankfully he doesn't have to have ARA-C again until we come back ion the middle of May. That fever really took a toll on him, too; he had two naps yesterday for over 3.5 hours in total, he slept in today, and fell asleep early tonight. I hope that all this sleeping helps him get over this cough... please pray that he will stop coughing soon (so we can stay here without feeling guilty, lol...), and so we can enjoy the next few days with my mom who is coming tomorrow! We are very excited about that; in fact, that was the first thing (and one of the only things) Noah smiled about today. It will be nice to show her RMH and the hospital and the places we have been enjoying here in Vancouver.
On Thursday the premier is coming here to meet the people in the house and make an announcement about a new RMH they are building on the hospital grounds. So we may be on TV on Thursday night! Watch for us....
Oh Stac, you make me cry....
ReplyDeleteI will continue to pray for Noah, specifically for the cough but for strength and healing overall.
Sounds like the treatment is sure taking it's toll - I am very sorry and cannot even imagine or our family in your shoes. You both (all) have been incredibly strong!
I hope you have a great visit with mom and that you get to see more (then one) of Noah's gorgeous smiles!!
We continue to think of you guys daily and lift your family up in our prayers - XX Auntie Jenn
Hey Noah good to hear your back at RMH hope ur cough goes away soon
ReplyDeleteThanks for the update, Stacey. We have been praying for you and are glad to read that you are back at RMH! I am glad we were able to book tickets to come visit in May. It will be really great to see you both!
ReplyDeleteNoah, did you stay awake last night for the game? Are you cheering for the Canucks now? There must be HUGE play-off fever in Vancouver right now! Wear that Oilers hat with pride, man!
Praying that you get lots of rest this week and your coughing subsides.
Love you both tons....
Auntie Denise
Hi Noah and Stacey,
ReplyDeleteI went to the dress rehearsal of The Three Trees at the school this afternoon. Tom did a fabulous job of directing the choir. Emily looks so 'grown up' and did a great ob of the tree quartet part etc. Allison and Miranda seemed to know all the words to all the songs and sang their hearts out. Such a good message the story has - trust in God and let His dreams be our dreams. You both would have been so proud of all of them. there will likely be someone making a video on Thursday night - so you can see the whole play!!
Am so thankful that you are back at RMH and we are praying that Noah's cough subsides, then disappears. Hang in there young man.
I can understand why the Easter service would bring you to tears, Stacey. Tears are so cleansing!! Remember the song, "For Those Teardrops I Died"!! Still is one of my favourites!!
It was good that Tom had a chance to spend some time with Noah, and that you, S, could spend time with the girls, over the Easter holiday.
I pray that your mom arrives safely tomorrow and that you have some wonderful times together there - making memories.
Our prayers continue for your healing and that you will fee God's love surrounding you, strengthening you and upholding you.
Much Love
Pat Klym Becker
Dear Stacey, my heart goes out to you as I read this entry. "Bawling" is good on so many levels and for many reasons.
ReplyDeleteAnd Jesus said, "Come to the water, stand by my side.
I know you are thirsty, you won't be denied.
I felt every teardrop, when in darkness you cried.
And, I strove to remind you,
That for those tears I died."
Praying for strength, patience and love to be felt from all of us who up hold you in prayer.
I will try and post some photos of the play tomorrow.
Love Jacquie
Hi Stacey,
ReplyDeleteCan you email me your mailing address? We would like to send your family a little something.
miss_cote@hotmail.com
You are in our thoughts and prayers!
Christin Cote
Hi Stacey and Noah
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear the fever is gone but we continue to pray for better days! Just returned from the Three Trees Performance. Couldn't help but think of you Noah and how you would have appreciated the humor! The songs especially bring to mind many thoughts of God's plans and our part in all of that and your part in all of that! Your class is having a mock election tomorrow and we're learning more about how it all works. Reminds me of your class's political parties last year and the fun you all had making up party names and logos. We set up all the Barkerville buildings for everyone to see today as well. Your building was among them. Everyone was quite impressed. Praying for a good day for both of you tomorrow.
Hi Stacey and Noah,
ReplyDeleteJust thinking of the message on the cover of our Three Trees program (Jeremiah 29:11). It is sometimes hard to keep trusting that God has has plans for us to prosper and have hope and a future. I pray that you will continue to be able to rely on him 100%.
Everyone did a fabulous job on the play tonight. It was a blessing to hear so many encouraging words come from the mouths of children, and it was great to have all the adults pull it together so wonderfully.
I pray that Noah will fell better soon. No more fever, no more coughing. Hear o Lord and answer.
Hi Stacey and Noah!
ReplyDeleteI was just thinking about you guys today, I hope that you are having a good day and that Noah is feeling better after all the excitement of Friday. Glen saw a funny bumper sticker today, it said in a big letters
JESUS LOVES YOU
but I'm his favourite!
we had a good laugh. Love you guys!! Julie.